The Value of University Chaplaincy

(This article was commissioned by “Academic Matters” and first published in the December 2007 issue.)

When community and university leaders were establishing the Ecumenical Chaplaincy at Carleton University in the early 1960s, they could not have foreseen the society we have today; but they did anticipate the value of spiritual care and religious advisory services.

People don’t hang up their spirituality on some post at the entrance of the campus when they come to study or work at a university or college.  If they are religious or spiritual people, that dimension of their worldview continues to be a part of who they are.  It may not be obvious or externalized in the performance of their academic roles, but it is certainly part of their essential human identity in terms of relationships, emotions, hopes and values.

They may not be religious in the ways that their parents and grandparents were.  Perhaps that has always been the case, but the religiosity cleavage between people born after 1975 and previous generations is a wide gulf.  Sitting with students in my Chaplaincy Centre at Carleton, I have heard people say, “Our family only had one rule when I was growing up: you had to brush your teeth before going to bed.”  When I ask a crowded lecture hall of students if any of them have never attended a formal religious ritual of any kind, several hands go up.  Each week at least one person says to me, “I’m not religious, but I am spiritual.”  It is usually a student, sometimes a member of faculty or staff.  They usually mean that they connect with some sense of the sacred, some concept of timeless and eternal values and existence, but in very personal, individual and eclectic ways.  Some people coming into my office for counselling or other conversation declare clearly at the outset that they are atheists or agnostics or, at least, doubters.

And yet they come to see the Chaplain.

It may simply be that I am available.  I keep open office hours in a “storefront” location at the centre of the academic precinct, between the bank and the bookstore, thousands of classroom seats within two minutes around my office. Thousands of students go by each day between classes.  Perhaps they choose to confide in me because I am not a doctor or psychiatrist or psychologist.  They may know or hope that I don’t use a medical model in my response to their concern.  They may know that I’m a religious professional, grounded in my own faith tradition, trained to deal with spiritual issues, experienced in helping people call on their own religious traditions and spiritual resources.  They may have heard me give a guest lecture in one of their courses, and decided to trust me.  One of their friends may have told them that I am trustworthy.  They may simply be curious.

The sign beside my open door says “Ecumenical Chaplain.”  Sometimes students stop to ask me what “Chaplain” means.  Sometimes they ask me about “Ecumenical” – firstly how to pronounce it, then “What does it mean?”  I’ve learned that there are two problems with this two-word job title coined in 1965: the two words.  The terms are certainly not fashionable today, but the ideas behind them are.  The students have come to translate “ecumenical” as “global” or “without borders” – like “Doctors without Borders” or “Engineers without Borders.”  They deeply appreciate an inclusive religious attitude – especially in contrast to the histories of religious intolerance that they may be aware of in Canada and other countries.

“Chaplain” is normally defined as a religious professional in a specialized, institutional setting, such as a hospital or children’s hospital, a school, mental health centre, a hospice, the military, a political institution, or a corporate setting.  The word “chaplain” comes from western European Christian culture: a priest serving a private chapel.  That isn’t what it means anymore: I have no chapel at Carleton University, Zak Kaye is the Jewish chaplain at the University of Toronto and Abdul Hai Patel the Muslim chaplain there.

What does “chaplain” really mean in practice?  I have permission to tell a story about a successful young professional, living and working in Ottawa.  A few years ago, he was a graduate student at Carleton, and he was in crisis.  He knew me a little from the Pause Table – the outreach program of free home baking and snacks that we do during December and April exams.  Like a lot of students though, he didn’t come to the Chaplaincy or to the Chaplain until he was in trouble.  And he was in trouble.  As a result of a bad decision, his status as a graduate student and his professional future were at risk. The story has a good ending.  He got through his crisis, completed his program, and got on with his life.  But when he first presented himself to me, he was definitely a student at risk, and not just with respect to his academic status.  (University chaplains are regularly doing subtle, unspoken but systematic suicide risk assessment as they sit with depressed, anxious or agitated students.  The suicide rate is one of the “dirty secrets” of postsecondary education.)  In the middle of this student’s crisis, there was a moment I will never forget.  At the end of one of our consultations, he got up to leave my office, turned around, came back, and shook my hand.  “Thank you Tom,” he said. “You’re the only one I can talk to about this… other than God.”  

As I religious professional, I’m probably supposed to say, “Talking to God is good. Listening too.”  We call it prayer.  But we know, because our children and grandchildren tell us so, that sometimes we need someone with skin on.

A chaplain is someone with skin on, the human embodiment of caring concern and unconditional acceptance present to a person who feels uncared for and unworthy in a place where performance is evaluated and “conditional acceptance” is a familiar term.

What do university chaplains do?  The “Four P’s” of campus ministry are Pastoral, Prophetic, Priestly and Pedagogical.  These categories refer respectively to counselling, support and advisory services; peace, justice and environment programming, and ethical reflection; weddings, funerals and worship services; and educational programs.  No chaplain does all those things well or tries to.  Some chaplaincy teams are successful at such balance and variety, but individuals tend to focus.  

At Carleton, I budget about 60% of my personal time for pastoral activity, and coordinate a pastoral team which provides another 2.5 “person years” of counselling and open office hours. – The pastoral support is very important.  However I also plan and lead programs that speak a prophetic word of justice and ethics to the campus community.  As the one full-time chaplain, I coordinate and facilitate clergy colleagues in other religions and various Christian denominations as they lead worship services on campus.  Normally, I do not lead worship unless there is a need to conduct a memorial service on campus.  I officiate at only 2 or 3 weddings per year, because I try to connect the couples with local congregations of their own tradition.  Some university chaplains have chapels and regular chapel services to conduct.  They may also have 20 or 30 weddings a year.  

I also teach.  In addition to the small-group chaplaincy programs in which I mentor and encourage spiritual growth, I teach religion courses in Anthropology, Sociology and Religious Studies as a contract instructor, and give guest lectures in a number of courses.  I enjoy this activity in itself, but it also increases my effectiveness as Chaplain.

Who comes to the Chaplaincy?  Muslim and Jewish students who ask questions about Christianity or are simply looking for referral into their own local faith communities; students researching assignments in any of the disciplines in the arts and social sciences, sometimes in architecture, design, journalism or business ethics; students looking for faith-based clubs or clubs related to peace, justice and environment issues; people concerned about racism, sexism and homophobia; people looking for on-campus spirituality; people looking for support in the context of crisis; people hoping to be talked out of their suicidal feelings; Christians critical of the church; Christians asking, “Where’s a good church?”

Do gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people come to the Chaplaincy?  Yes.  And I am a familiar face in the GLBTQ Centre at Carleton.  For some time, we have been doing a program together called “Que(e)rying Religion”.  I got the idea from Ralph Carl Wushke, Ecumenical Chaplain at the University of Toronto.  At Carleton, we bring in a religious leader from the community for conversation with students about issues of religion, faith and sexuality.  

Do Aboriginal students come to the Chaplaincy?  Yes.  The Aboriginal Lounge is just a few steps away from my office.  I am a welcome guest there, and a number of Aboriginal students trust me and seek me out despite the history of the mission church and residential schools.  They know that I am associated with the 1986 United Church Native Apology and subsequent Healing Fund.  Some native students will never trust me, and will never come to the Chaplaincy; and I can respect and understand that.

But the Chaplaincy is not for all the students, faculty and staff anyway.  It does not seek or expect to be.  Certainly, we could not staff it to provide spiritual counsel for 22,000 students.  Chaplaincies at Canadian universities and colleges today are an item on a menu of student services.  Not everyone needs or will use the Writing Tutorial Service, but the university must provide one.  Not everyone will use the swimming pool or fitness centre, but our concept of university includes such facilities.  Not everyone will use the religious and spiritual advisory services, but increasingly students expect them to be there.

This has come as a surprise to some university and college administrators.  Several of the modern, postwar universities in Canada established themselves intentionally independent of organized religion.  But the increasingly international and multifaith make-up of the high-school-aged population has put pressure on that strategy.  Christians from other cultures may be more aggressive than Canadian-born Christians in asking for opportunity to practise their religion on campus.  Jews, Muslims, Baha’is, Buddhists, Aboriginals and others may feel they need certain accommodations that the founders did not anticipate.

Increasingly, university administrators, thinking in terms of fiscal concerns, recruitment and retention, realize that an effective multifaith chaplaincy serves the university’s mission statement.   

 

One of the modern dynamics that traditional chaplaincies and older universities have had to adapt to is the increasingly multifaith diversity of the campus population.  Some universities, like the University of Victoria, provide for this with a large team of chaplains representing the different faiths.  UVic also has an Interfaith Chapel (http://www.stas.uvic.ca/chapel/), a free-standing building used by more than a dozen world religions, and the regular venue for diverse religious and spirituality programs.  York University has a Multifaith Centre, centrally located near the main library.  The University of Toronto opened a new Multifaith Centre in October 2006.  Other universities are adapting space or considering the possibility of new space dedicated for use by religious and faith-based groups.  

Brock University is an interesting example.  Like Carleton, it was established to be secular, and a later generation of leaders had to devise a way to provide spiritual care.  The chaplains are paid by off-campus religious organizations, but the university welcomes and appreciates them, offering practical accommodation and support. But what about space?  My fellow Ecumenical Chaplain,  George Addison writes:

 

“We are still working on making the Rita Welch Centre more welcoming 

to diverse faiths… We have argued that the university should not merely 

tolerate different faiths on campus, but should accommodate in a generous 

and inclusive way by providing space on campus for religious life.  Faith after 

all, cannot be confined purely to the private sphere, but is part of the landscape 

of the university.  Further, the best way to deal with differences and possible 

conflict among people of faith is to recognize diversity and provide space 

and program dollars to promote inter-religious understanding and dialogue.”

 

Many other Canadian universities are also considering how to provide space for spirituality at this time.

If space is difficult though, multifaith programming is not. Sometimes it is essential that an event include the participation of several faith groups, sometimes it is simply desirable and possible.  I arrange or participate in several multifaith panels each year, addressing such issues as racism, gender roles, ethical issues, and public policy issues.  These events enrich the intellectual and spiritual life of the campus community.

Multifaith ritual is more difficult, but it can be done; and it may be even more important.  For example, after 9/11, many campus communities were able to convene pastoral care services and prayer events on a multifaith basis.  The same needs arose after the tsunamis of December 2004, and the shootings at Dawson College in September 2006 and at Virginia Tech in April 2007.

Healing ritual needs to be multifaith and perhaps invented.  When the students asked me to convene a commemoration of the victims of 9/11 on the first anniversary, we developed a multifaith prayer service in which nine world religions were accorded about 5 minutes each.  I booked the event into a lounge at the top of the only high-rise building on campus.  The religious groups used their time in different ways, but generally they read from scripture or recited from sacred tradition, and prayed.  If the language was Hebrew or Arabic or Sanskrit or Cree, the speaker would explain in English or translate.  Students told me afterward that they had expected to feel like spectators during most of the ceremony.  Some of them were surprised to realize how touched they were and how much their own spirituality was expressed during the leadership of some of the other religious groups.  Some of the students most touched by the ritual and most appreciative identified themselves as being “not religious.”

After the speakers had taken their turns, I invited the 100 or so students to join in a circle, holding hands to symbolize our hope for the oneness of humanity and to remind us that people who are holding hands cannot throw things at each other.  Then, silently we walked down the 44 flights of stairs, remembering the victims of the two New York towers, remembering too that some of the victims had been rescue workers on their up.

University students feel fragile under the stress of economic, academic and time pressure.  They feel especially vulnerable at the beginning of a new year and during exams.  The fact that 9/11 occurred during the first week of classes increased the trauma for the students I dealt with.  Some were just learning their new roommate’s name, just meeting their professors and class-mates for the first time.  They had left a familiar support system, and not yet established the new one.  Similarly, the exam-time context magnified the wave of fear and anxiety that rippled through Canadian campuses last April when 32 people were killed at Virginia Tech

The first few years after high school are a critical period of risk and decision-making for young adults in Canadian society.  They choose their careers, their lifestyles, their life partners perhaps, and their styles of citizenship in society.  It is a time of vocational discernment in the broadest sense, not only in terms of jobs and careers.  It is a time of identity discernment.  

At Carleton, and elsewhere I’m sure, students use the Chaplaincy as a safe place to do that discernment in conversation with others as they reflect on the curriculum, get to know themselves better, develop their own ethical identities and discuss public issues.  They may become educators, civil servants, scientists, entrepreneurs, doctors, social workers, politicians, managers, architects, engineers or anything.  But for the large population of students who participate in the Chaplaincy programs, hang out in the Chaplaincy Centre and engage myself and my associates in conversation, their vocational decisions are based in part on religious values or a spiritual identity.

For most of its centuries-old history, the university has been a place of community, spirituality and values.  Contemporary conditions in Canadian society can make this difficult if not impossible.  There isn’t enough space at most universities and colleges for adequate common rooms; the students commute to class and rush away to their part-time jobs; traditional religious institutions struggle in post-modern culture; materialism, pragmatism and harsh economic realities erode ethical thinking.  At Carleton, the Ecumenical chaplaincy functions to build community, nurture and express spirituality, and articulate ethical values.  Wherever a university has such a spiritual and religious resource, it is better able to maintain its own best tradition and integrity.

Tom Sherwood is an ordained United Church minister with a PhD in Sociology.  He has been Ecumenical Chaplain at Carleton University in Ottawa since 1999.

 

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Commandments for Interfaith Dialogue

“A Decalogue of Imperatives”

Ten Commandments for Interfaith Dialogue
by
the Rev. Dr. Tom Sherwood,
Ecumenical Chaplain, Carleton University
presented to
“Christian – Muslim Dialogue of Understanding,
Prospects for the New Millennium” Conference
sponsored by
the Organization of Cultural and Islamic Relations
and the Iranian Scholars of Canada,
University of Ottawa
15 July 2000

 

Introduction
In campus ministry, we increasingly speak of the importance – even the imperative – of interfaith conversation. I have only ten words to add, but they constitute Ten Commandments for Interfaith Dialogue, a Decalogue of Imperatives:

Relate.
    Listen.
        Expect.
            Respect.
                Articulate.
                    Disagree.
                        Work.
                            Share.
                                Study.
                                    Hope.

1. Relate.
Relate to each other personally. Develop personal relationships within the group. Get to know one another. Be human. Be social. Remember always the importance of developing personal relationships, because true conversation takes place always within a relationship – the better the relationship, the better the communication. The Jewish-Christian Dialogue in Ottawa, Canada has been meeting since 1982, with some continuity of membership going right back to the original meeting. It has become a group of people who know each other, trust each other, like each other, want to see each other again. This has made for honest conversation and good attendance.

2. Listen.
The mouth is not the most important organ of conversation, and certainly not for conversation across cultural and religious differences. To love is to step into the presence of the other and listen. Listening is the language of love.

3. Expect.
Expect to grow and change. Expect to change your mind about certain things. I hear Micah 6 verse 8 and try to do justice, love kindness and walk humbly with my God, who may have spoken different revelation to my neighbour of a different faith, a revelation that will only come to me through that neighbour and our relationship and our conversation. Expect to learn. Expect that the loss of ignorance, and the gaining of knowledge and perspective will change you. Have high expectations of interfaith dialogue. Be demanding of it, and it will be better and more worthwhile.

4. Respect.
Respect the other participants and what they have to say. This means much more than mere courtesy and language – although it does mean that. Be fair. Practice the Golden Rule. Do not use hurtful words. Do not hang on to false ideas and prejudices… let them go. Do not insist on using your own terms to describe the other’s beliefs. Expect them to use their own vocabulary to define their own faith, and learn that vocabulary… out of respect.

5. Articulate.
Articulate your faith, express your own beliefs, witness to what you believe most deeply. As you listen to other’s deepest beliefs, you are also given permission to speak your own. I am not as interested in dialogue with a cultural Jew as I am with Jews who practice their religion in observances and ritual, in family and congregational life. I am not particularly interested in dialogue with “Id-Muslims”, cultural Muslims who have become secularized humanists, melting into North American society. Moreover, my experience in interfaith dialogue is that other groups expect me to be a Christian, a believing Christian not a Santa Claus/Easter Bunny Christian. They expect me to be articulate in my faith, and they invite me to be so. (This is, personally, one of the great values of interfaith dialogue for me. In interfaith conversation, I am challenged to express my beliefs again and again in different settings, different relationships, in response to different questions. And far from the fear that some Christians have – that interfaith conversation might dilute my faith – I find that it dilates my faith. “Dilute” means “to weaken or water down”. “Dilate” means “to make larger and wider”.)

6. Disagree.
Agree to disagree, right from the start. You are different. You are not two voices singing a duet in perfect harmony, you sing to each other in different parts. We usually do find harmony in our songs. But they are different songs. Name the differences. Identify them. Question the others about the aspects of their religion that you find new and different and strange, and invite and expect reciprocal questions directed back toward you.

7. Work.
Work together with your neighbours of another faith to make this world a better place, acting together to care for God’s good creation – the environment – or acting together to care for some part of our human society – neighbour love. In Christianity, with all our diversity and internal pluralism, we say that theology divides but mission (or ministry) unites. In other words, if we sit around and discuss various theological doctrines, the conversation becomes debate and we live on our differences. If we work together to feed the hungry, build houses for the homeless, free the prisoner, care for the vulnerable, we live on our common concern, our common humanity and our common spirituality. There is a learning for us all from this Christian experience. Where the members of an interfaith dialogue can co-sign a letter to the editor or co-sponsor a practical project or participate together in any common ethical effort, it is a powerful and positive experience.

8. Share.
Where possible, share each other’s celebrations, rituals, worship and meditation. I have attended prayer at the mosque – as a guest, an invited guest. Dr. Solaiman or Abdul Rashid has invited me and given me some orientation. I grew up as a minority Christian in a Jewish community – I have attended many, many Jewish celebrations in my life. My friends wanted me to be there. They attended important celebrations in my life, too. In June 2000, in Vancouver, 400 religious professionals who work in higher education held the first Global Multifaith Conference for campus chaplains. There were people from 6 continents and 8 world religions (Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hindu, Sikh, Buddhist, Aboriginal and Baha’i). There was daily worship at a number of times in many different places for the various faith groups. Many participants attended worship in other faith traditions as invited and welcomed guests. This was a very positive aspect of our community life. In some cases, as mutual respect, trust and understanding grow, it sometimes becomes possible to participate in each other’s religious activities (a rabbi preaching the sermon in a Christian worship service) and even to participate together in common religious activities (interfaith or “multifaith” worship). We have done this many times at Carleton University and in the City of Ottawa: prayer-for-peace services, events against racism, 9/11 memorial services. The Canadian Council of Churches has published thoughtful guidelines for multifaith worship (see Appendix).

9. Study.
Do your homework to learn about each other’s history and scriptures. Ask questions. Loan books. Read. Agree to read a particular book and discuss it together. Study. Learn. Ignorance is the enemy. We all know that not knowing each other personally prevents dialogue – it allows for ignorance and prejudice, fear and even hate. Not knowing factual information about each other is another dangerous and destructive form of ignorance, another enemy. As dialogue begins, we acknowledge our ignorance; but we do not accept it. By agreeing to participate in dialogue, we have agreed to an agenda of learning. Study.

10. Hope.
And have hope that the conversations we have among religious groups, and the dialogues we have between faith groups will make for peace and justice and fullness of life. Without such vision, any individual local dialogue will perish. Never doubt that the efforts we make in our own individual lives, our own local communities, the specific dialogues we participate in… never doubt that they contribute to a realization of human society more as God intended. Never doubt that human society may be better because of our efforts. Never doubt that we can do this, but have hope. We live at the most dynamic time in world history. We are not prisoners of the past. By grace we are, in partnership with God, creators of the future. Hope. And have hope.

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